Don't Think That You Are So Important

Before the host closed the program for the night, she asked the guests what did they learn from each other. The old guy said sometime he picked her idea to used in his lecture. "Some look far ahead and forget to watch the step they are walking, final they fail". This old couple were married when they are in their 60, totally different in the way of thinking. One is very artistic when another is very academic but they were made for each other. The old guy said they went along very well because they fulfill each other. The old lady look very lovely even in her late 60s. The host asked what make she look so happy and always has good attitude toward everything and asked her to give good word for a married couple. Her answer is very sharp but sincere. She answered "Humor is what everyone need" "I can say it because I am old" The key is "Don't think that you are so important". When you do, you will take everything too seriously and never be happy. It even better if you can laugh at yourself." The old guy answer was very interesting too. He said when you feel for someone, or treat someone as your special person, always remind yourself this feeling is depend upon 'time and space'. Keep to yourself that there is 'time and space'. This will help you adaptable or evolutionable on every situation.